Tell-Tale Signs of an UNFAITHFUL wife or girlfriend…

So your wife has suddenly changed and while you can’t quite put a finger on it, you feel like there’s something wrong. You have the suspicion that she’s cheating on you but you still don’t know for sure. Well, here are some of the signs your wife might be cheating:

1. She is spending more time with her girlfriends than she usually has in the past. She comes home and directly heads to the shower. She goes away on business more frequently and her whereabouts are sketchy at best. She is unreachable Read More

Tell-Tale Signs of an UNFAITHFUL husband or man

Do you think Arnold Schwarzenegger’s ex, Maria Shriver, and Tiger Woods’s ex, Elin Nordegren, knew about their husbands’ affairs?

These women most likely did notice some of the signs, but the shock or hurt was so deep that they chose denial over screaming evidence. Don’t let your denial work in his favor. Betrayals are a shock to your psyche, and I know it can be difficult to acknowledge something horrible, but don’t justify and make excuses when the neon signs are flashing to get your attention.

Here we share SEVEN tell-tale signs that your husband is actually up to no good:

1. There is a change in the emotional quality of your relationship. He is withdrawn or pre-occupied. He is less engaging. You physical intimacy has dropped off considerably. Something feels off to you. His attitudes towards you has changed and for the worse. He is less affectionate and disinterested. Your best approach is to notice it and be curious.Read More

Everyone suffers at least one bad betrayal in his or her lifetime. Betrayal can happen in marriages, in committed relationships, between friends, family members, in businesses, and between two nations.

Getting over betrayal requires some mental and emotional toughness. It does not matter when or how you found out about the infidelity. Right now, it is important to take care of yourself. Right after the discovery of an affair, your emotions are all over the place.

Best way to deal with the shock and disbelief is by soothing and comforting yourself. You can do that by following some of the suggestions outlined here. These suggestions require you to act on them. Remember, only actions will produce results. Make a plan Read More

Grieving after the discovery of an affair is the first step in the healing process:

You are grieving the loss of your relationship. In the initial stages of grief, you can feel so overwhelmed that you might fall apart. Pain and hurt feel uncontrollable and it may feel like you are going crazy or losing it. You feel this way because betrayal involves multiple levels of losses.

Everyone gets into a committed relationship with the hope and wish of a forever and lasting relationship. Betrayal does not resonate with this philosophy. It no longer rhymes with this wishful thinking. Most people find themselves off balance at the discovery of infidelity and are not prepared to face this harsh reality. It is difficult and devastating to admit the irreversible act of betrayal. Unfortunately, in this situation, there is no way to turn back the clock.Read More

Wanting to blame is common in any horrific situation because most people want someone to take responsibility for the unbearable situation. Infidelity impacts you in a major way; therefore, you are looking for someone to hold accountable. Blame serves as a buffer against owning the responsibility for the hurt and pain.

Blame happens because the relationship has reached a place where the actions cannot be reversed. It is natural to want to point fingers at a betrayer for a relationship having gone bad. You want someone to take the blame for the losses incurred. Someone needs to take responsibility for the failed relationship. Sometimes blame is used as a license to Read More

It is normal to feel vulnerable when you have been betrayed. Your feelings are hurt and you are upset. Cheating is an emotionally charged event and at times people in pain lash out in anger. People also get angry in this situation to restore a sense of control.

Marital affairs or Emotional affairs are emotionally charged events

Since adultery or infidelity is an ill-mannered event, it causes people to lose their equilibrium. Betrayal turns your world upside down and makes future healthy, trusting relationships difficult to develop and sustain. The good news is that the human brain is an amazing muscle, and with a little effort it can be trained to react in certain ways. You can heal and get past feelings of hurt and hostility.

“How does one become a butterfly?” she asked pensively.Read More

Forgiveness is necessary and integral to the healing process after the discovery on a marital affair. It restores harmony and brings forth peace and allows you to move forward from a healthy, healed place to form glorious relationships.

Forgiveness has a magic built into it because by forgiving people who have hurt you, you actually free yourself and give yourself permission to heal these deep wounds.

Forgiveness after infidelity transforms you to emerge from the darkness

Forgiveness transforms you to emerge from the darkness of being a victim of an emotional affair. Forgiveness restores, liberates, and rejuvenates you and changes you from the victim’s position to a place of self-confidence, appreciation, and a spirit of good.Read More